Gentlemen don't Fall in LOVE, They JUMP IN LOVE!!!

Love. It’s a four letter word with a multitude of meanings.

A stereotypical male probably loves his family, his flatmates and his local football team all in different ways.

Yet, when it comes to loving a significant other, there are two main types – and the one you should aim for is far less romantic.

Falling in love

Let’s first discuss the romanticized ideology described as ‘falling in love’.

Essentially, it’s a romantic obsession with a member of the opposite sex. She’s seen as this perfect princess who’s forever in your thoughts. She gives you this serene light-headed, goofy feeling. She’s your everything and you’ll do anything to keep hold of her.

It’s lovely in theory, but honestly there are only certain types of guys who ‘fall’ for girls in this way – those who don’t have much else going for them.

When you don’t have a lot going on in your life, it’s actually quite easy to fall in love. You’ll probably fall for most pretty girls who show a bit of interest.

If you don’t have lots of friends, a promising job, or hobbies to make you really happy, you’ll become so hooked on the happiness she brings, because you’ve experienced nothing else even close to the emotional high of a hot girl’s attention.

Often, she doesn’t even have to be hot. When we ‘fall’ in love with someone, our brains inflate their better features and block out their flaws because we’re so desperate to continue receiving their affection.

It’s called co-dependency. This isn’t necessarily unhealthy but there’s a tendency to end up with women who are completely wrong for you.

After all, high-quality women rarely remain in relationships with men who melt at their feet. They aren’t into that. It’s just not what the masculine men they’re after tend to do.

There’s typically only one standard of woman who is attracted to this behavior and she also has bad self-esteem. It’s hardly healthy to have to handle her weaknesses as well as your own. The cracks in these co-dependent pairings appear pretty quickly.

Jump in love

For the high-class man who already feels great about himself, it’s a lot harder to ‘fall’ for a woman. love. The high-class man jumps in love instead.

He already has great hobbies and great friends, so he’s not desperate for attention from women. He isn’t felled by female affection because he already has an abundance of it. He’s not blown head over heels by her beauty nor hypnotized by her behaviour.

He’s seen it all before. He’ll see it all again. He’s already got so much to make him feel great that he can take or leave her love.

This high-quality male will naturally attract women with this attitude, but may still choose to stay away from relationships. He doesn't feel rushed to fall in love. He’s happy to wait. It’s a naturally masculine trait.

That’s not to say he’s incapable of loving the right lady. He’ll give plenty of them a slice of his roller coaster lifestyle. He’s just less likely to settle for second-best.

Then, when he meets a lady that makes his life even better, he’ll make an unclouded choice to invest in her. It’s a choice rather than an overwhelming urge.

It sounds unromantic, but it’s also really unselfish. He doesn’t need her to be happy. She isn’t this perfect Disney princess that will complete him.

Yet, because he’s been with enough women before committing, he can clearly see which one has the strengths for a sensational relationship.

It’s a logical choice, not an emotional one. That’s what happens when you hold yourself from falling in love with the first woman that will have you. This patient approach has the best probability of creating a perfect partnership.

Learn to love yourself

How can you learn to jump in love instead of falling in love? The key is to love yourself before you love another.

Find a purpose in life that runs deeper than finding a fun girlfriend. Enjoy new experiences. Treasure friendships. Aim to change the world.

Become the type of guy that doesn’t have time for a girlfriend, because there’s too much other great stuff going on. Suddenly, only the most breathtaking girls will be worth spending time with.

It’s this non-neediness that wonderful women find irresistible when you take the time to meet them.
It’s almost funny how they’ll waltz into your life whenever you don’t need them.

He who is happy with or without a relationship won’t fall in love too often. Yet, he’ll almost always have love around him and the option to seize it whenever he sees fit.

The option to jump in love whenever you’re ready. That’s the mark of a high-quality man.

SO GUYS, LET US ALL JUMP IN LOVE!!

https://gentlemenhood.com/high-quality-men-dont-fall-in-love-they-jump-in/2/

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Questions to ask before you get married

It’s now more common for marriages to fail than it is for them to last a lifetime. But we can still get married with the confidence that we will enjoy the healthy, holy marriage God wants us to have if we invest time before getting married into asking wise questions. Making time to consider key questions will help us and our future spouse head in the right direction: one that leads toward God’s purposes for both of you.

Here are some crucial questions to ask before you get married:

Are you willing to grow up? Your own maturity level, and that of your spouse, will determine how well you all can work together in marriage and how likely   you all will be to stick with your relationship or give up on it. So each of you needs to honestly assess your current spiritual, emotional, social, and financial maturity by reflecting on issues such as how much self-control you each have, how much you respect authority, how much you can say “no” to some activities so   you can say “yes” to those that are best for you, how much peace versus drama   you have in your relationships with others, how often you keep your promises and follow through on commitments, whether or not you have a job that pays your bills, and whether or not you’re in debt.

Are you “equally yoked”? It’s never God’s will for you to be yoked (tied together) in marriage with someone you are not connected with.

Have you talked about money? We tend to overlook this vital part due to lack of trust, insecurities or Fear of the Unknown. Disclose all of your financial information to the person you’re considering marrying, and expect full disclosure from him or her, too. Talk about how each of you plans to earn, spend, save, give, and invest money if you get married, and why. If you discover that one or both of you doesn’t currently have a healthy budget or healthy money management attitudes or habits, get help and make changes before getting married to save yourselves from having to go through tremendous stress afterward. Money is good in Marriage.

Will you tell the truth? You and your future spouse must tell each other the whole truth about the romantic relationships that you’ve each had with other people previously, regardless of how wild or mild they were. Share all of the details with each other honestly, listen to each carefully. If we are meant to be, there is a certain stage we have to let it all out. So we would not be caught by surprises from the past. Though I agree we cannot remember most or all, but we can begin revealing. This puts us in a more comfortable and confident position.

Will you commit? I must confess, women especially in Nigeria commit more than Men.        Marriage as God designed it requires a lifetime commitment. So you and the person you are considering marrying should face your fears about that and discuss issues such as how you    plan to handle disagreements and crises that may come up in your future marriage, such as illness and job loss. Determine whether or not both of you are willing to trade the lives you       have now for a new life together, and whether or not you’re willing to eliminate the option of divorce and keep turning to God for the strength to keep working on your marriage. Whatever the case, Divorce should not be an option. FOR BETTER FOR WORSE.

Are you compatible? Realize that just because you love someone doesn’t mean that person is a good match for you. Honestly evaluate which personality traits   and personal habits you can live with for many decades in a future marriage, and which will drive your marriage apart. Let go of any person who isn’t truly compatible with you to save you both years of heartache.

Have you communicated your expectations? Discuss each of your expectations about married life, such as where you’d live, where you’d go to church, when you’d start trying to have children and how many children you want, and what types of careers,businesses and work hours you each hope to have. Since surprising each other after you’re married will cause lots of stress, it’s much better to talk about your expectations beforehand and see if you can reach agreements before committing to married life together.

Are you ready to marry an entire family? Get to know each other’s family backgrounds well, since each of you will carry over the attitudes and behaviours that you learned growing up into the new family that you create together. We cannot deny our in-laws. I do not know about other tribes in Nigeria, but in Yoruba land, you are married to the entire family.

Pursue healing for issues that concern either of you (such as anger management problems or addictions) and end the dating relationship if you discover character problems (such as a lack of integrity) that the person you’re considering marrying isn’t willing to address.

Are you willing to submit? Each of you must be willing to submit to Jesus in obedience in your life together, to express honor and respect for Him. That means mutually following Jesus’ example of loving service to others. Never try to control each other, but instead choose to serve each other even when doing so is difficult, just as Jesus served others when He was on Earth. Through this process in your future marriage, God will help each of you become more like Jesus.

Will you give respect? You each must also be willing to respect each other even when you don’t think that the other deserves that respect because God has made you both and highly values you. By choosing to respect your future spouse when he or she doesn’t deserve it, you can motivate your spouse to change and begin acting in ways that are worthy of respect.

Are you ready to love? Realize that love is an action, not just a feeling. Are you prepared to   continue in love towards your future spouse, even at times when you don’t like his or her behaviour? Some of the ways you’ll need to show your love include listening, protecting, providing, and serving each other, no matter what. Try to talk less and LISTEN more

Are you ready to “get naked”? Understand that sexual intimacy within marriage involves far more than just a physical connection; it also calls for a spiritual, emotional, and conversational connection. How do you plan to build the kind of relationship with each other that makes healthy and fulfilling sexual intimacy possible in your future marriage? Discuss that openly and honestly with each other.

Adapted and Developed from 12 Questions to Ask before You Marry, copyright 2011 by Clayton and Charie King.

6 things that wont get a lady the 2nd date

These single men have SPOKEN.
Do you want to secure a second date with that hot guy you've been excited to go out with?
As taken from a sampling of single men in their 20s and 30s, here are six things that will land you in the "no-call zone" where you WON'T be asked out for a second date:

1. You Talk Too Much
Talking too much was a first date dealbreaker for guys in both age groups. So if you have a naturally bubbly, outgoing personality, skip the caffeine before your first date. The last thing you want to do is to rev up your motor mouth, and kill the guy with word slaughter!
Tone it down. Ask him questions, let him talk, and listen to what he's saying. Make your conversation a two-way exchange, and you'll improve your chances for a second rendez-vous where an "I'll call you later" actually means he will call you later.


2. Your Internet Reputation Is NOT Good
If they haven't Googled you or checked out your Facebook profile, Twitter or Instagram before your first date, they definitely will before your second. Doing their "research" on you is an important dating ritual for these men — they want to know everything about you before they take things further, so expect them to do a little digging.
AND expect that they will ask their friends about you. If they find out you're a girl with a long, promiscuous dating history, these "good guys" might not be interested. Maybe the Bad guys which you prefer unknowingly will.


3. Your Family Troubles Scare Them
A first date isn't the best time to tell them about your crack-addicted, alcoholic, incarcerated, abusive family members. Your life may be a sad story, and hopefully you escaped the fate of your family history, but a first date isn't the time to "release the kraken" of family monsters.
That said, if a good guy senses that you're following in your family's footsteps with your own list of scary habits, they will bolt.
If you have problems, please get the help you need, so you can show your willingness to take personal responsibility and IMPROVE your chances for a callback. You meet some families, and you just change your mind. BACKGROUND is KEY.


4. You Talk Too Much About Your Ex
These guys don't want to hear all the gory details of how your ex did you wrong.
Save the dramatic story line for your
girlfriends or a therapist. This new man may be into threesomes, but not the
ghost-of-an-ex-boyfriend kind. I have had an Ex too, so why the drama? Cling to your ex and don't waste my time. IRANU.(Rubbish)


5. You're Already In The "Friend Zone"
There's no romance or spark. He's NOT that in to you — you can tell because he's not bragging and puffing up his chest to show you how macho he is.
If the tone of your first date ventures in to "friend zone" too quickly, you can expect you won't make the cut for a second date.this is a big turn off for me really.


6. You Weren't Very Polite
Whether you were late or texting too much, you didn't mind your manners.
Being on your phone too much during that first date is a big dealbreaker for these guys. Why would he want to spend time with you when you'd rather text someone else? Where is your Courtesy?Respect? Go and Date your phone if you can. It shows you are too attached.

And your tardiness? Really frustrating because it sends the message that you don't care about them and their time commitments. It's a selfish maneuver that won't get you more time with them.

www.yourtango.com/experts/joan-jerkovich/6-reasons-he-wont-ask-you-out-second-date

WHY ONLINE?

Why Online?

People are always of the opinion that studying online is tacky, doesn’t seem classy and reduces one’s prestige. They are of the view that an online degree is neither authentic nor recognised. A misconception I must say. The whole idea of studying online has always been because of the growing need to get the better side of education and still afford to work and play. The whole concept of online education is to encourage an affordable means of study like in cases where internationally acquired education is the only option. 

It’s not an easy way out neither is it a way to lavish money for no just cause, but to be frank, any one with the goal of acquiring the right education and cannot see the need to travel or cannot afford it, can actually take on an online program and achieve everything he or she wants without the fear of losing out on anything.  

The University of Essex working with Kaplan Open Learning began an online program to provide undergraduate and postgraduate degree courses online to both UK and international students that enables them to benefit from a flexible approach to study, while maintaining the quality and support you would expect from a top UK university.

University of Essex Online courses are delivered by Kaplan Open Learning (Essex) Limited, an experienced online learning provider. The University and Kaplan have grown in their partnership to offer high quality online courses.

Our structured distance learning courses allow you to work towards your degree in a unique virtual learning environment and still have access to all the support and facilities you would expect to receive on campus.

Whether you’re a student looking to enhance your professional career or a school leaver who has opted for an income and valuable work experience whilst studying for a degree, online study is a cost-effective, convenient and flexible way to do so. The University of Essex has great online programs from certificate courses to Diplomas, Bachelor top-ups, and Degrees( Law, CriminalJustice, HumanResources,  Business and Management, MBA, Marketing,Finance, InfectionControl (Public Health) etc)

With affordable tuition, flexible payment plans and course execution you can acquire a recognized academic qualification from a highly ranked school in the UK. The best part is that you are able get all the support you need at our one-stop study centre from application to enrolment and study here in Lagos, Nigeria at the Kaplan International Colleges Nigeria office, something very rare to find with most online programs. You are given access to the Virtual Learning Environment specially set up to meet all study requirements from group discussions, taking lectures, submitting assignments, using the E-library etc. 

Every student is supported throughout their online program by a dedicated Student Adviser. 

Upon Graduation, students are invited to their convocation/ceremony in the UK and are also issued Certificates that do not indicate that the course was taken online. 

For more information:

Email: ezinne.anonyuo@kaplan.com Or call  08071824661

Chidinma Bella Okagbue aims to be MOST BEAUTIFUL GIRL IN LAGOS PAGEANT

Chidinma Bella Okagbue is the last daughter of the royal Okagbue family.

The 18 year old beauty is a 200 level political Science student in the University of Lagos. Coming from a family not new in the entertainment industry, she follows the footsteps of her older sister Sandra Okagbue the popular model/beauty queen and Face of Delta Soap and her older brother Chris Okagbue who is also a model, actor/producer and the winner of Gulder Ultimate Search 2011. Chidinma started her modeling career not too long ago and has already done jobs with big brands like Airtel and Coca-Cola. She's an intelligent and confident young girl. Fame and popularity isn't new to her as she effortlessly stands out amongst her peers in school.

Now, she has taken another step forward in her modeling career by contesting in the highly talked about MOST BEAUTIFUL GIRL IN LAGOS PAGEANT where she's representing Lagos-Mainland.
       Support her to achieve her dreams by liking her picture on the MOST BEAUTIFUL GIRL IN LAGOS Facebook and Instagram pages.

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7 things I wish I knew before marriage

1) Marriage Is the Final Frontier

Most of the things I've learned (below) apply to both cohabitation and marriage, except this one: getting married really is different than living together unmarried even for many years . It's not just the many legal and financial benefits of marriage though. There's a psychological difference.

My husband and I lived together for several years before getting engaged, and dated several years before that, so it's not like there was much to adjust to after getting married. But maybe it's the months of preparing for a wedding (and investing thousands in it) or the knowledge of how difficult (and also expensive) divorce can be that makes the commitment more ironclad, for both you and those around you. This is it. As soon as the wedding vows are exchanged, you're on a different, accelerated life path. Before, you were being nagged about when you were going to get married. Now friends and family will be asking when you're going to have a baby (a life changer on its own). Once you have that baby, you'll be asked when you're going to give the kid a brother or sister. Everyone's in such a hurry.

Even if you're really ready for marriage and can picture the entire rest of your lives together, it's normal to wake up some days and think, "Holy shit, I'm married forever and ever??" Everyone knows marriage is a big commitment, of course. But even when getting married is a natural step in your happy relationship, years later when you're more appreciative of the decades you have ahead of yourselves, you can be floored by how extraordinary it is to commit the remainder of your life to one person.

2) You're Not Just Marrying Your Partner, You're Marrying His or Her Family Too

You know the saying "We're not losing a daughter, we're gaining a son-in-law"? Well, it works in the reverse too: You're inheriting the obligations, stresses, and, yes, benefits, of a whole new family. You might get along superbly with your significant other's family now, but once you're married they could transform into the in-laws from hell, because now you're cemented to your partner and they claim you as one of their own.

I'm the quiet sort of person who needs her space, but my husband's family is full of extroverts who don't really understand that perspective. That's caused a lot more grief over the years than it should have (I wish we had this article back then), but I'm lucky that my husband understands me and mediate when necessary. Others aren't so lucky. I've seen couples on the brink of divorce over in-law issues rather than problems specifically between the couples themselves. So my advice would be for both sides to imagine each other's family at their worst and how you two might handle any issues before they got bigger than the both of you. And, to be fair, know that bonding with your partner's family at a deeper level and becoming the daughter/son/sister/brother they always wanted is another surprising perk of marriage.

3)Say Goodbye to Taboos

There's a scene in This Is 40 where Paul Rudd's character forces his on screen wife Leslie Mann to inspect his naked bottom for haemorrhoids. It might not be as extreme as that for all couples, but after being married for some time the raw and crude things are no longer, well, raw or crude. In fact, they're like curiosities and, sometimes, obligations.

You might ask or be asked to evaluate nose hair or pull off a blackened fingernail things you would never do or ask while dating because now you two are one and almost nothing is embarrassing anymore. It's nice to always have someone there to tell you if you have broccoli between your teeth and not feel judged by it.

4)The Little Things Matter a Whole Lot More

I used to think that the best test of whether you could live with someone else forever is to ask yourself if you could put up with his or her biggest flaw or the worst version of this person for the rest of your life. I still think that's a good exercise, since people become more themselves as they age their desires, strengths, and flaws get sharper. If your partner is somewhat of a curmudgeon now, he or she will probably only become crankier and more stubborn as the years go by. Conversely, the best things you love about a person could hold you steady through the inevitable tough times.

But now I think that it's the little things you have to look for, because in the day-in/day-out of marriage, the little things add up. Little annoyances like a nail biting habit or leaving filled water glasses everywhere are really easy to overlook during a relationship when the bigger things the way your partner makes you laugh or how beautiful you feel around him or her attract your attention more. When we're "in love" we tend not to notice the small things that could drive you crazy months later, like hanging the toilet paper the wrong way.

On the flip side, it's also the small acts of everyday kindness, respect and love that keep a marriage going. Romantic gestures like buying flowers or a surprise date out are great, but they don't hold a candle to mundane things like un clogging a drain or taking over child-bathing duty. Doing chores becomes sexy in a way you would never imagine.

5)You Both Have to Change to Make the Marriage Work
The old adage that you can't change someone by marrying them still holds true. You shouldn't fall prey to "fixer-upper bias", and you probably don't want anyone to change you either. The truth is you're probably both going to have to change or adapt, as a choice, to keep the energy and love alive.

The two biggest things are learning how to fight more productively and how to communicate in ways that might not be natural to you but make more sense to the other person. Gary Chapman, who literally wrote the book on what people should know before they get married, says that people have different "love languages" or ways they express and receive love best. I'm not naturally a "toucher", but I am learning how significant just holding hands can be. It can take a long time to learn what your partner's silences mean (and don't mean), that grudges can kill a relationship, and how to adapt to the ups and downs that life is going to throw at you both.

I think every couple should go through at least one really tough time together before they get married, just to see how the other person handles such things.

6) There's No Just You Anymore
Paul Reiser in Couplehood explains it pretty well:

The problem is, when two people live together, there is no more Business of Your Own. Your Own Business is closed. You've merged and gone public. You have to run everything by the partners. And if there are too many conflicts of interest, the business may go under, freeing the partners to once again open up smaller concerns by themselves.
Like all businesses, couples engage in endless meetings to discuss areas of management concern and division of labour.
"You know, we really should call the post office and tell them to hold our mail while we're away."
"We? You mean me, don't you?"
"No, I mean we. I didn't say 'you.' I said 'we.' You or me."
"Oh really? Are you ever going to call the post office?"
A moment to think. "No."
"Then you mean 'me,' don't you?"
"Yeah."
Being part of a permanent team has its benefits. You come to rely on the other person to remember and take care of certain information (Psychologists call this transactive memory). I don't have to worry about making plans with our friends or not getting lost when driving, and he doesn't have to worry about the bills or after-school activities. (Also, I wish I had known at the start that there were some things he'll willingly do that I just assumed he hated, because I hate them: things like grocery shopping and getting rid of telemarketers. I would've had him do those things sooner.)

On the other hand, now you have to put the marriage above everything else, and might even forget what you were like when you were single and "free". It's not a bad thing, necessarily. It's just a lot of responsibility, being responsible to someone else.

7) It's a Constant Work in Progress
You might think once you've finally settled down you can relax and live happily ever after, but nothing can be farther from the truth. The years jumble together, and if you're not careful you'll easily take the marriage for granted. I didn't know it over the years, but I think the thing that's made the most difference for my marriage is our regular holidays and other traditions — things that force us to take stock again in our relationship and reconnect on a deep level. Just "being in love" isn't enough to make a marriage work.

Even after decades of living together, you'll be learning things about your partner, bit by bit, that might surprise you — or they'll suddenly change or have different priorities and needs ("Really, you want to become a scuba diver now?" and "How come you never told me you don't like olives?"). It's like a dance, and you both have to keep up with each other. But what a beautiful dance it can be.

Culled from http://www.lifehacker.com.au/2013/10/7-things-i-wish-i-had-known-before-getting-married/

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Phone snooping, Right or Wrong?

Someone once said, "A woman investigating a man can do a better job than FBI agents."
Phone Snooping! What the heck does that mean? To check or investigate your spouse phone in an attempt to find out something especially information about someone private affairs.

By the way, different theorist with different views on phone snooping. Some are against it; some are fully/partially in support

Mind you, this issue has broken marriages, destroyed relationships, sown distrust and lots more. Needless to say the emotional, psychological and physical damages.

Recently I was at a lounge in Abeokuta with my friend Tunde. Abeokuta is the capital of Ogun state For Your Information . We were having this conversation about the forthcoming election with so much enthusiasm. Along the line, Tunde paused from the election talk to inform me that he was expecting some money in my account in which he stated the amount and asked if I have been notified by the bank.

Few minutes after that confession, the alert came in, I confirmed the transaction, notified my friend who checked and returned back my phone to me.

We continued with our discussion with our wine glasses and phones on the table. I forgot to mention to you earlier , there was this beautiful lady seated very close to me. Kemi should be in her early twenties; she appeared all dressed up in pink crop top and skinny jeans with her legs crossed. At first, she was forming diva, rolling her eyes and touching her hair at every slightest opportunity, later on, I guessed she found the dialogue interesting when she decided to chip in her own view about the election. "This election will be hot o" she said, with a sharp tone. Tunde and I stopped and looked at Kemi with disbelief on our faces. She looked at us casually and removed her face. She apologised for disrupting our chat which I did not mind anyway. We got talking and talking not until she felt so relaxed and comfortable that she grabbed my phone on the table and was snooping .

For God sake, we just met! Why is she snooping my phone? I couldn't even answer that question myself. After a minute, I asked what she was doing with my phone, to my utmost shock and disbelief, the words that emerge from her mouth were "I was just checking your messages Nah, or what are you hiding? She hissed playfully. She had the confidence to indulge into my privacy and still confirmed it. We exchanged phone numbers and left the lounge.

Some days later, we decided to hang out again but this time around Kemi came along with her friend Tola. We ordered for food and drinks and sat there for about two hours eating and chatting. When we got through with the food and our glasses of wine were about half gone. My dearest Kemi confidently took my phone again, Again? you must be wondering, Yes she was snooping with a sheepish smile.

What the heck is wrong with this lady!!! This babe will be clingy and never trust a man o. Those words rang, clear in my head. Regardless, I let her be, after all, she isn't my girlfriend or wife so I am quite convinced I owe her no explanation.

I began to wonder, is this the kind of lady, Any man would want to have something serious with? What if she was my girlfriend, fiancee or wife? I might have been dead and gone by now. Her frequent quarrels and nagging would have sent me to an early grave because every text message would either be a threat, a philandering, fornicating or adulterous act to her. Ok, back to the main meal.

I think the main reason why so many relationships come to an end today is not because a spouse is abusive or cheating alone . Somehow, it is because of the vicious conduct embedded in INSECURITY. No love or marriage relationship can grow or survive without trust. In reality, TRUST is a foundation on which a relationship is built. The moment the trust shatters, the relationship squash. If you don't trust a person, you can't even love him or her. It is important you give your spouse the benefit of doubt, watch them proof you wrong or right.

So people , let's roll;

Does your partner have a right to snoop your phone? Or would you allow your spouse snoop your phone?

What's the big deal really since we are suppose to be open to each other?

Does snooping through your spouse phone stop him/her from cheating?

I rest my case .

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If you are in London, don't dull

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Gboyega Nasir Isiaka pledges to develop Local Government Councils

Isiaka Pledges To Make Local Councils

THE Ogun State governorship candidate of the Peoples Democratic Party (PDP), Prince Gboyega Nasir Isiaka has promised to allow local governments to operate as stipulated by the 1999 Constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria if elected into office.

    He, however, berated the outgoing government of Senator Ibikunle Amosun for stifling that tier of government and making them ineffective to carry out their constitutional responsibilities as the closest tier of government to the people.

   Isiaka who was fielding questions from the panelists during the gubernatorial debate organised by the Committee For Defence of Human Rights (cdhr) in Abeokuta, said for the development to spread across all the 20 local councils in the state, government at that level should exercise a level of autonomy with little supervision from the state governor where six candidates participated.

   Governor Amosun was conspicuously absent at the gathering where candidates were asked various questions on their agenda for the state.

   The PDP candidate who assured the people of his desire to expand the economy of the state to engender development pointed out that it was the only antidote to survive the global economic meltdown and fall in the prices of petroleum products at the international market.

    He said, "We envisage no problem in getting resources to finance our four point agenda which places emphasis on welfare of the people because we have many projects, if executed, that will increase the internally generated revenue (IGR) of the state and provide employment for our teeming youths.

    "The problem we have in Ogun State now is that most of the projects being executed are not well thought out before execution, that is why contractors have left the sites but we shall complete all these projects.

    "At this critical time when there is a global economic challenges, our state needs a sound financial expert to keep us afloat and I have all it takes to do this and make our state greater".

Isiaka said he felt bad seen students of secondary schools in the state sitting down at home because the government has failed to fulfil its promises to the teachers. He said no serious government would toy with the education, which he described as the bedrock of human development.

  "The strike action embarked upon by the teachers can be averted if t
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